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Living with less — and the New York Times

I have made this letter longer, because I have not had the time to make it shorter.Blaise Pascal

I think old Blaise might have hit the proverbial nail on the head.

We have more because we do not have the time to learn to live with less.

This story from the New York Times is about someone with exactly that problem.

Graham Hill, the founder of TreeHugger.com was one of those very bright people who made a great deal of money starting up and selling an internet company. For more money than most of us will ever make in our lifetimes.

What does a young man with virtually unlimited funds do?  Go on a shopping spree, of course!  In fact, he hired his own shopper to do all the boring stuff — he just pointed to polaroids and nodded to bring more stuff into his life. A big apartment in New York AND a large house in Seattle.  Plus everything you need to live in those places.

But then he needed to hire people to look after his stuff.  Because looking after his stuff was a job. And he didn’t have time to do it.

My house and my things were my new employers for a job I had never applied for.

It took some time, but Graham stopped worrying about owning things and concentrated on doing things. Now he lives in 420 square feet in New York.

It’s a pretty sweet space — check it out. Or read about it here. And his life has gotten much better now.

I’m still a serial entrepreneur, and my latest venture is to design thoughtfully constructed small homes that support our lives, not the other way around….My space is small. My life is big.

His newest venture is LifeEdited — a way to help other people live smaller and better.

In the end, I don’t think it’s a case of not having enough time to learn to live with less.  I think a change like that — like we are making — calls for a shift in priorities.  And that is probably a very good thing.

Decluttering — does it ever end?

Keeping in mind our new lifestyle — less is best — I am continuing to toss stuff right, left and centre.  But it’s not without pain.

I look at things and think “I can’t throw this out — it has too much value.” But then I wonder if it only has value because I’m imbuing it with the value I think it should have.  Sounds complicated (Oh. I. Am. Complicated.) but what I’m saying is this, “I don’t own crap, I own valuable objects. I own it, therefore it has value.”

But then I say “Don’t be an idiot.  Toss it.”

Now I have found support in this article at Houzz.

It’s okay to feel pain, and worry, and concern and anxiousness.  That’s normal.  But it’s IMPORTANT to move beyond that.

The truth is, as you declutter, you will probably make mistakes. You will almost certainly get rid of things you’ll later regret, but I’m here to tell you it’s going to be all right. Don’t let the fear of potential regrets get in the way of a new lightness and freedom.

And if you are feeling overwhelmed?  Get help.

Now, who do I know with that kind of organizational skills?

(Of course I’ll have to clean out my closets before I let them look through them).

A small apartment in Manhattan

I love Style at Home magazine.  For many years (at least 10), I have received a year’s subscription to the actual paper-and-ink magazine from DH for Christmas.  One year I also received one from my sister, such is my love of SAH known throughout my friends and family. But one thing used to drive me crazy.

All the homes they showed were large.  Sometimes very large.  Ten-foot ceilings.  Sitting rooms you could put a bowling alley in.

Recently they have completely redeemed themselves, by showing how to decorate small spaces.  Their March issue is all about getting the most from the least amount of square-footage.

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This article shows how you can make a small space pretty and feminine. There’s no need to stick to slick surfaces and sleek lines when what you want is lace and loveliness. The designer gave the owner of this 600 square foot Manhattan apartment a very pretty place to come home to.

SAH313-2Check out how the designer keeps the look light and airy while still bringing in the touches that make it soft and luxurious.

File this one under Small Spaces Rule!

 

Containers — for living

Our home will be built from the ground up — all ours, hand-crafted!

But some people like to take a few shortcuts — like using shipping containers to build houses.

Here’s my pick:

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I like the roof — of course!

Here’s a selection of some of the best.

Friends collaborate on vacation retreats — 350 square foot each

Hands up everyone who had a vacation cabin on a lake!

Anyone?  When I was a kid it was no big deal for a family to have a cabin on Christina Lake.  (Yes, I was one of the luckiest kids on earth.  I still am.)

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Our handy-man Dad built two cabins, an a-frame, then we sold that and he built one with a flat roof. They were built on land leased from the government, on the west side of the lake — that is, the side with no road.  Every board, every nail, the wood stove and every stick of furniture had to be loaded onto the boat or made into a raft that could be towed.  A lot of the materials were salvaged from shacks that the railway was tearing down.  We spent every weekend away from the heat of our BC interior house, in the beautiful cool woods and warm water of Christina Lake.

Those cabins have been passed on to other families to enjoy, and I hope they love the memories of those halcyon days as much as I do.  But I’ve always thought a cabin retreat, far from one’s daily life, is a wonderful thing.  It doesn’t have to be large, and the less fuss required to keep it up the better.  Just something the whole family can enjoy.

Four Texas families had the same idea, and built their vacation homes close together.

The woods are a little sparser than those of my childhood, and the river is nothing like that beautiful pristine lake.  But they have the rustic charm I remember (although we did without electricity.  And running water.)

And they are small.  To me, a real get-away does not include extensive housekeeping.  A quick sweep-out, an occasional dusting.  Cabins are for relaxing.

Living in 300 square feet

I’m always inspired by someone who can live in a little space — and live well.

Mary Lee has planned her studio apartment to get maxium style in minimum space, using bright neutrals and mirrored surfaces to keep everything bright.

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And this studio apartment is really a studio — she works there, too!

 

Check out the home tour at Apartment Therapy, find inspiration for your home.  I found it in the brightness, and what Mary Lee says about keeping her belongings to a minimum, too.

Buy things that have a purpose in your life. If it is not functional or doesn’t evoke a valuable emotion, like inspiration or nostalgia, then it’s not necessary. Don’t clutter your space with stuff, supply it with purpose. Don’t think of it so much as decorating but more of curating a collection over time that best tells the story of you.

Toss it – the continuing story

Our laneway is being built with maximum storage.  Under the bed.  Under the stairs.  In the walls.  Shelves and cupboards everywhere. But we will still have to get rid of a lot of our stuff.  From one hall closet full of clothes and one linen closet full of sheets and towels we are going down to…..nothing.  A few essentials stashed under the bed.

Junk must roll!

So far, in our winnowing process, I realize that I have belongings in “keep” and “toss” categories — but also in a third category — “stuff I know I should toss but just can’t bring myself to”.  Because darn it, it’s the sort of thing that makes you want to end a sentence in a preposition!

I look at this as a process, a journey as it were, to a tidy small home.  And that journey is made up of small steps.

Because we have to keep the place clutter-free for the viewings for potential buyers, I’m getting used to seeing my kitchen counters clear of small appliances.  I had to clear out a cupboard to make room for those appliances to be stored, and that meant tossing or giving away about 8 cubic feet of “precious” belongings.  They were some of the first things to go, and I can’t even remember what they were. I just thought they were important to me. But I realize that having a detritus-free counter is more important to me than those things I tossed.

We are going to live a much more minimal life.  If there is one thing the design process has taught me is that there has to be a reason for everything we have — our belongings have to earn their keep.

I’ve got some on-line support from houzz.com along the way to that minimalist life.

To me, the biggest obstacle to overcome is

4. “I paid a lot of money for it.”

Boy, truer words were seldom spoken.  I have an Australian oilcloth raincoat hanging in my hall closet, as it has hung in various closets over the past 20 years.  It’s not my style, but I paid a lot of money for it, and I just figured that someday someONE would want it.  But no one ever has.  I thought I should sell it, but it seems like such a hassle.  And who would want it?

That coat is destined for Big Brothers.

BTW, Big Brothers and other charities are friends to the de-clutterer.  Whenever they call to ask for donations say yes.  You will then have a commitment to remove some stuff from your life.

So I will continue to throw things away and give things away.  No more hiding things away.  To quote the above article

Life, like art, is all about removing and editing to make room for what you truly want and need.

Small space in the Big Apple

Thanks to Style at Home, we can see how  New York-based Canadian designer Brendan Kwinter-Schwartz re-made pilot Kerry Dempsey’s 680 square foot Manhattan loft into a sleek but comfortable home.

What’s not to love?

manhattan-loft-grandest-spaceEspecially those saucer pendant lights and the cowhide-as-area rug on hardwood.  Armless slipper chairs are versatile yet take up less visual space.

manhattan-loft-classicBut don’t plan on installing those light-as-air stairs unless you want to become BFFs with members of the board of variance.  As far as I know, in Vancouver you are not allowed spaces between stairs large enough for a baby’s head to fit through (about 4″ or 10cm).

How cool is this?

This site lets you make a watercolour of your town’s map.


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Thanks, Centsational Girl.

Why I love Houzz, and why you should, too

My name is Patricia, and I am a bloggaholic.  I don’t mean I’m addicted to writing a blog (I just like doing it once in a while — it’s not a problem!) but rather, to reading them.

Google Reader is my downfall — and my deliverance.

But my number one favourite for decorating tricks and tips is Houzz.  I’ve signed up for their emails, and twice a week I get a panoply (and I don’t use that word loosely) of decorating ideas — plus architectural terms, gardening tips, and so much more.

F’rinstance here is an article about toilets:

Now, who is interested in the lowly commode?  Just someone who has to find the perfect one for her very in-commodius new laneway home.

So pop over to Houzz and sign up for their updagtes.  It’s like Saint Sarah Richardson dropped by for a chat — twice a week.

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