Stuff is not passive. Stuff wants your time, attention, allegiance. But you know it as well as I do, life is more important than the things we accumulate.
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Taming the “stuff” monster–the ever-continuing story
Our first official site visit
Thursday evening was our first official, regular site visit with Laurel and Angelito from Novell. We met at 6 and viewed the developments, and developments there were.
Here is what we saw:
Here is what we learned:
- The sewer for the main house is being moved and will join up to the laneway house’s sewer
- The water supply for both houses will be sufficient for excellent water pressure in both homes (very good news for the folks in the main house, who currently have low pressure)
- The builders did not reach hard pan under the whole foundation (that packed clay layer underneath most of Vancouver) so they are building the foundation on concrete footings — those are the forms you see
- After the concrete pour there will be inspections, then more concrete
- By the time of our next meeting in two weeks, the concrete walls of the main floor of the laneway house should be built and they will be ready (or nearly ready) for framing
- The laneway house is going to be fully covered by Home Warranty Insurance. Which is actually something I did not think about, in my giddiness about the build. Once it’s up — it won’t fall down. Nor will it leak or creak or reek. Which is a comfort
What we have to start thinking about:
- Lighting plans (oh! We are thinking about lighting!)
- Millwork (i.e. kitchen — we have a cabinet maker selected and they will be building far advance of when the cabinets will go in)
Also — moving! It’s happening and we are busy up to our eyeballs in the process.
Still packing and purging
DH was out of town doing good works in Ottawa from Wednesday to Saturday last week. I had big plans to do a lot of packing, but surprised myself by actually doing less. I had forgotten how much work a person who works at home does while he’s home — working. There were piles of laundry that did not magically transform themselves into clean clothes; cat dishes that did not get filled; litter boxes that did not empty themselves; dishes that stubbornly remained dirty. And get this — the refrigerator does not spontaneously make food! It’s nice living the life of the ridiculously spoiled, and I didn’t even mind being reminded that I do.
But he returned to us late Saturday night and by Sunday afternoon we had a nice pile of boxes to take over to the rental. The big move is next Sunday, and we’ll be schlepping boxes over to the storage space next Saturday, so things are back on track. And I used the Victoria day holiday to pack like a fiend again.
We are currently living in what Stephanie at the blog Scoutie Girl calls “home limbo“.
that space between the moment we start dismantling our current home, and the moment we declare ourselves satisfactorily settled into our new one
And that’s where we’ll be until we’re in the laneway.
The rental looks better every time I see it. There’s lots of light, and the neighbourhood is great. The kitchen is teensy, and I was stowing some stuff away and remarked to DH that living there would be like camping, just using what we needed, with no spares or extraneous stuff. He gave me a grave look, and explained that this is the way we will be living for the rest of our lives. We will be getting rid of stuff from now till the move into the laneway, this is just the first step.
Stephanie suggests purging inclusively
decluttering through the lens of what you want to keep, vs. what you want to get rid of
Look at whatever-it-is and ask yourself, not “do I really want to throw this away?” but “do I really want to keep this?” Find space for it in our new place? Displace something else just to have this around?
Makes decisions a little easier to make.
Week 2
When Laurel sent us the list of stuff that had to be done, I was expecting things to stay pretty static during the last week.
But when we dropped by yesterday we could see real progress.
It’s still a hole in the ground. But now it’s a level hole, with gravel!
No more excavator sitting in our kitchen! Just a lovely level lot with places for water to come in and flow out.
The rest of the yard is completely out of bounds
with red danger tape up. And the back fence is up with danger tape on that.
But it’s looking more like home to me.
DH took another shot to show the difference.
Week 0
A new career opportunity? you could clean up!
We are packing and packing and packing. And then we look around — and nothing’s packed.
It’s amazing how much crap er stuff one collects in just 13 years. In less than 1500 square feet. I’m throwing out tons. And giving tons away. But there’s still so much stuff!
Wouldn’t it be lovely if someone would come in and take care of all this for me?
Like Christine Smart of Designing Moves.
According to this article, she is just the sort of person who will take care of all those tedious details, like she did for the Thorpes of Cedar Rapids, Iowa.
She dove right in, arranging an auction, handling online sales on craigslist and eBay, and donating to charities. Ms. Smart also oversaw move-related details, such as cataloging items, space planning, packing, shipping and unpacking.
People in their senior years (ahem!) are downsizing from large homes to small. There is such a need for people who help the downsizers adapt to their new life that there’s a National Association of Senior Move Managers.
Give me a few days and I will be on the phone to get their help.











