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War, war, war-drobe!

Guess who was watching Gone With The Wind the other night?  Do you know Olivia deHavilland is still alive?  97 and kicking.

But I digress.

Pattern

A couple of months ago I ran across a very interesting and inspiring blog post by Nadia Eghbal.  A former fashionista, she wore the same outfit every day for a year.   Did people notice?  Maybe, but no one followed her through the halls pointing and giggling (she doesn’t work in a high school, obvs).  Her uniform was a pair of jeans, a t-shirt, and a scarf.  That can carry you through almost any situation.  She also kept a couple of formal dresses for special occasions, but she got rid of all her other clothes.

That really resonated with me.  I thought about it for quite a while and then I realized the reason why I got such a charge out of that post.  I wear a uniform almost every day, too.  I take the bus to work in all weather, so I usually wear slacks.  I have about five pairs so I wear one a day for the work week — jeans on Friday, natch.

I top the slacks with a short-sleeved top in the summer and a long-sleeved top in the winter.  A couple of cardigans. Three or four scarves.  One necklace.  That’s it.

So do I need too much else?  No, I really don’t. I buy a lot of clothes at the Gap because they are comfortable and affordable.

Now that we have to squeeze two wardrobes into one PAX system, I’ve got to pare that wardrobe down to the basics. But it’s not like I have to re-invent myself.  I’ve been doing that for years.  I just have to get rid of the stuff that doesn’t fit my re-invented lifestyle. And buy new clothes that do fit it — and me.

It helps that I’ve lost some weight in the last year.  No, it didn’t just fall off me, every pound was hard-fought, and I have to keep working at it to keep it off.  (I know what you’re going to say, “If you lost that weight, how come you’re still….plumpish?”  **Hard Stare**.) I still own several ensembles that are just too big for me.  I’m tossing them.  And I have lots of tops that I can still wear, but they are my old size and make me feel…plumpish.  So they will be replaced one by one by tops that fit me better.

We want to start travelling more.  That means clothes that can be rolled up and squeezed into carry-on luggage.  Tops that can dry overnight after being washed in hotel sinks. Slacks that can be worn on long flights without bagging at the knees and bum.

I won’t need a lot of clothes, and I won’t have the space to store clothes that can’t meet the criteria.

Next weekend — I will gather my forces to get rid of that sad pile of ill-fitting clothes, and fight the battle of the Droop Mountain.  I knew I’d work in Gone With The Wind somehow.

Living small? Buy into the idea

Yes, we are moving into a tiny home, and yes, we are happy to do it.  It’s not for everyone, but is it for you?  Would you put your money where your future house may be?

Ian Kent thinks his Nomad Micro Homes could be one of the answers for densification in our city — plus the solution for other housing problems.  “Less House More Home” is their motto and they have a 160 square foot house for you…for just $25,000 to $28,000.

Great for a summer house, a guest house, a studio or even your main house (if you live a minimalist life).

“There’s a wide range of uses, from people using them as additional accommodation, to recreational property — you could basically drive this home in and assemble it in a week.”

And if you think it’s a good idea, you can support the idea with a contribution to their Indie Gogo page

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And find out more about the project here:

Use it up or throw it out!

We are packing again, getting ready to move to the laneway house.  I look around me and see shelves of goods, and I just don’t know where it all will go.

Well, of course, a lot of it will go …. out.

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What will we throw out?  In this article on Wise Bread, there are tons of things to toss. Lots of the suggestions we have already rid ourselves of:

2. Old Paint

We all have those cans of paint in the garage or basement. They’re great for touching up walls when they get chipped or scratched up.

We got rid of all our old paint by taking it to the local recycler.

11. Magazines

There’s a better place for those old magazines than gathering dust in your garage, basement, or attic

I tossed piles of magazines.  And when I get a new magazine I give the old issue away, so I only keep one issue at a time.

16. Old Underwear, Socks, and Bras

Alas, sometimes we stretch out the time between washes a little longer than we should, and why? Because we see five pairs of undies or socks left in the drawer and know we’re OK.

I can’t bring myself to give away my older…”lingerie”( to call my skivvies by a fancy French name).  But I can’t believe how much I have, and I won’t have to visit the panty counter for a long, long time.

17. Dated Technology, Including Old Cell Phones

It was shocking to see how many old computer components and cell phones we had when we moved the first time.  Luckily we could wipe the hard drives and pass them along.

What am I ridding myself of? We have lots to throw away.

9. Linens

Old, dated, worn, mismatched linens that no longer have a use other than “what if?”

Or shred

4. Dated Receipts, Paychecks, and Bills

Do you really need a filing cabinet full of old bills, paychecks, and receipts? If they are no longer needed, dump them

We’re digitising as much as we can of our paper records.

7. Cups and Mugs

We’ve got lots of old dishes that will go.  There are boxes of “good” dishes in the storage locker, no need to hold onto chipped and mis-matched crockery.

And what can I NOT give away?

23. Jewelry

Pendants with broken chains. Old rings. Old bracelets. Dated brooches. Dated anything, actually.

I am not a jewellery fan.  I have been given lovely chains, bracelets, earrings, pins.  But I wear the same silver chain and the same silver hoop earrings almost every day.  I know I should sell or give away a lot of the jewellery I have.  But I just can’t.  It’s the shocking victory of sentiment over practicality, but I can’t get rid of my old jewellery.  Oh sure, cheap plastic items have been passed along.  But not the good stuff.

So we continue with the process.  Shedding our carapace of belongings.  Like moulting a skin. But just a bit more painful.

Do I really need that?

While we are waiting for the great strides that the laneway house will be making in the next few weeks, we are busy doing some decorating for the new place? Compensating? Maybe, but the tasks have to be done and we will do them.  Ordering lights.  Arranging for a headboard to be built.  Checking out the bed situation.

Plus this evening DH told me that he would like to go up to the storage space this weekend and see if we can winnow down the amount of, well, crap that we have there.  Even if we just organize a couple of boxes to be carted off to the Salvation Army we’ll be further ahead.

As if to emphasize the point, tonight I managed to break the coffee grinder.  Not the whole thing, just the lid.  Necessary to grind coffee as it contains the switch to turn the grinder off and on.  Do we have another grinder?  Of course!  Plus another lid.  But not here.  No, they are put away in the storage space.  If we are lucky we will run across them when we are rooting around the storage space this weekend.  If not, we will have to buy our coffee pre-ground, because we must have coffee.

At times like this, it’s good to review a few rules for thinning down our belongings.  Here, we see “10 Decluttering Principles to Help Anyone Clear the Clutter”.  Things to remember:

1. Stop the Flow of Stuff Coming In.

We’ve already started cutting back on the papers entering the home, switching to emailed bills that are stored online, and we refuse to buy anything new.  New books go straight onto the Kindle.  But that doesn’t include furnishings for the new place, we have boxes of lights piled about.  So there’s still a little work to be done there.

2. Declutter at Least One Item a Day.

OK, noble aspiration.  But it’s difficult to find one item per day.  I have managed to get rid of some decorating magazines by passing them along.  And I’ve been throwing out my shabbier socks.

Let’s skip ahead.

5. Decide to Not Keep Things out of Guilt or Obligation.

This is the tough one, isn’t it?  Especially since I’ve got so much of my parents’ things to dispose of.  What is an extra dish or glass, what is a relic?  Something to work on.

But it’s all summed up with the final suggestion:

10. Do Not Waste Your Life on Clutter.  Every item you own takes time out of your life: time to manage it, clean it, repair it, and maintain it; time to choose between objects of a similar category; time spent shopping for it… and that doesn’t even mention the time spent earning the money to pay for it in the first space. Decide to sacrifice less of your precious life on the pursuit and ownership of stuff.

That’s the goal.  to live life with the minimum of belongings to weigh us down and complicate our lives. Because you can get trapped by your extra stuff.

It not just clutters your life, it can cost you money.  We are paying for a storage space every month.  But some people pay a lot.  

In the basement of Tribeca’s newest luxury high rise, the storage wars are underway. 56 Leonard just sold a 200 square-foot storage unit for $300,000 — that’s $1,500 a square foot.

More than we are paying.  But why pay anything?  Better to just rid ourselves of the stuff we aren’t using.

Sweeping clean — more decluttering

Living in the rental space has shown me where my own personal mindless clutter comes from.

Mostly it’s paper.

I’m definitely a piler, not a filer, so I’m trying to work out how best to organize my papers.  The first step will be to find “an underused closet ” to put a series of bins or baskets in.

Spaces by Fort Lauderdale Closet & Home Storage Designers NEAT Method, South Florida

And the system has to be super-accessible, so I can just drop papers in every day when I go through the mail — and not have to save them up to “file properly”.  I don’t need lots of bins (I have been honing my tossing skills) but just a couple to hold work receipts, manuals,  and notifications.

Plus it has to successfully hide said paper, so DH doesn’t have his “mess alarm” tripped.

And I’m going paperless when I can — bills, bank statements, receipts, etc., but I still have a few.  This little interlude is giving me the chance to figure out how many baskets I will need and how they will be labelled.  There’s no sense buying them until I have a space I can put them — I want them to fit into an unobtrusive place and I don’t have one of those yet.

These are just steps to the final product — a clutter-free home. For. Ever.

What I learned on my summer vacation

BC has an embarassment of riches as far as vacation locations go.

This summer I’ve already been to Nelson and Christina Lake, British Columbia (sweet!).  But for our regular summer vacation, we always head to Penticton.  We stay at the same hostelry every year, perfectly placed for maximum walkability, close to the beach, pool, friendly owners — we love it.

Penticton

My favourite view of Penticton — toes, beach, lake, hills.

But what did it teach us about how we are going to live in the laneway? Well, we lived in a small suite with one suitcase full of clothes (between us) plus mis-matched pots, pans, dishes, and glasses.  And it was fabulous.

We bought food, drink (thank you, Okanagan wineries) and two beach towels (remind me again why storing things in a storage place is a one-way ticket to wasteville — our old beach towels are somewhere in “there”).  We spent money on experiences (miniature golf, restaurant meals, ice-cream cones) (hey, ice cream is an experience!).  And the wifi in our room is so dodgy we could only pick up our email if we stood at the kitchen counter or teetered on the balcony (we booked the same room for next year, so, yeah, we like picking up our email once a day).

Letting go felt great.  Of course we don’t believe that we are are going to be living such a simple life when we move. But we do understand that living with less is doable — and attractive. Sure it was only for a week, but it left us wanting more…..more “less”.

Back home I am looking for ways to get rid of some of the papers that flood into our home.  It’s a good start, and we will find a way to keep it to a minimum.

Baby steps. Inspired by a week without mail.

Living real small in the real world

So often the “small” live we see online and in magazines is what I like to call “decor porn”.  It’s so pretty!  Everything is clean and well organized, yes, but it’s super expensive, the built ins are truly built in, everything matches and was purchased at high-concept high-priced stores.

But there are actually people living in small spaces like us, doing it bit by bit and having to fit their lives into a very tight area.  But they are loving it all the same.

Thanks to Life Edited, we don’t have to start poking our noses into our neighbours’ homes to see someone living the real small life in real life.

RealSmallIn this story on their site, they tell the tale of Marya, her two cats and (cute) dog, who all live in 350 square feet in her home in Florida.  She also works out of the space, which is why she has boxes piled up.

As she says,

I live in one large room which serves as office, sleeping area, kitchen, and small sitting space. There’s a divider to separate off my bed from the rest of the room; it has bookshelves on one side and clothes closets on the other. My bathroom has a stall shower and a stacked washer/dryer. The kitchen area has under-counter fridge and freezer, 2-plate stove top, and a few built-in cupboards. I have a minimum of pots, pans, dishes but can entertain 4 people comfortably for dinner.

She has furnished her home with items from big stores like K-Mart, and has a cozy and comfy place that she owns outright, paying a monthly maintenance fee to the complex (which contains a pool).

It’s great to see that micro-living is within the grasp of people who are just like us, just wanting the simpler life and enjoying keeping her belongings to a minimum while she lives life to the max.

Wabi Sabi? Wabi I’ve got, Sabi, not so much

I’ve been reading, and following several blogs, about minimalism.  And if you do that, you will soon run across the term “wabi sabi”.  At first I thought that people were just fascinated with Japanese horseradish.  But no.  Wabi sabi is a Japanese term, to be sure, but it actually refers to an emotional state, a state of living, and of course a style of decorating.

According to the font of all knowledge, Wikipedia, wabi sabi can mean

 Japanese world view or aesthetic centered on the acceptance of transience and imperfection. The aesthetic is sometimes described as one of beauty that is “imperfect, impermanent, and incomplete”

Black_Raku_Tea_Bowl

But some also translate it as

Wabi sabi is a state of consciousness. Its beauty hidden in the aesthetic or feeling experienced between you and something in the world.

or, according to others, it’s

wabi sabi is about the perfection of impermanence and imperfection.

or even

 Wabi (which means “humble and unmaterialistic”), Sabi (which means, “the bloom of time”), is a Japanese mindset based on the spiritual concepts of Zen Buddhism

OK, so the Japanese have a word for it, and we are trying to each find our own definition that conveys the spirit of the way of life that reflects and realizes beauty, serenity, and balance.

But one thing everyone agrees on.  Wabi sabi means living a clean, uncluttered life.  Loving and respecting nature in all its complexity. Being mindful of one’s surroundings.  Caring for one’s belongings, now matter how few they may be.  Appreciating quality over quanitity.

Simplifying your life.

And that’s what I’m after.  So I will try to follow the tenets of wabi sabi.

To live small, avoid living big

A newspaper article caught my eye yesterday.  From the Globe and Mail, it says

A liberation creed for consumers: Think small

Those of us who are treading the path to less and fewer can hardly be surprised that writer Rob Carrick has noticed the “living small” movement and espouses it.

Let’s get a few things straight about the Think Small philosophy of spending.

It’s not about self-denial, extreme frugality, going back to nature, reducing your carbon footprint, veganism, communism, adopting a monastic lifestyle or otherwise preventing you from having all the toys you want.

Think Small is a liberation creed for consumers. Buy smaller homes and cars and spend the money you save on other things.

It appears Mr. Carrick is writing a series of articles about the movement.  The week before he wrote about the joy of spending less on cars.

Now here is what surprises me.  The Globe and Mail, like most media in Canada (this blog and CBC radio are the exception) makes its money entirely through advertising.  Advertising makes its money by convincing people that they should buy things they don’t need.

Right now, the articles suggest paying less for your cars and houses — and buying other stuff, “spend the money you save on other things.”

But you and I know that the secret to living small is NOT spending money on things.

Hmmmm……so if we spend less and less on stuff, will there be more advertising, or less? Will newspapers and broadcasting be able to survive? Is Mr. Carrick writing himself out of a job?

Don’t store it — get rid of it

Now that we are in our little rental space, we are truly getting used to living with limited storage space.

And it’s pretty cool.

We are regarding our rented storage unit, not as the repository of our precious, precious belongings, but rather another place we have to clear out.  That is an onerous task, but one that will bring us more happiness in the long run.

Heck, it will make us happier in the short run, too.

When we first considered moving from 1100+ square feet to 500 square feet, I just assumed that we would always have to have a rented storage unit.

For our stuff.  For our Christmas decorations, extra dishes, linens.

Even after we moved to the rental suite, I wanted to use the storage unit as an extra closet.  I kept a few towels and sheets, and packed up the rest, planning that when the small amount of linen and dishes in the rental suite broke or wore out, we would replace them with items from the storage.  Planning that gradually the storage space would be emptied as we used up things.

Then, after putting one of our two sets of sheets on the bed, DH put his foot through the bottom sheet.

The idea of going up to our storage space and shifting a ton of boxes to find the right box with the extra linen in it was ridiculous.  I also knew that the “extra set” of sheets in that box wasn’t complete, either.  Stupidly, I had put away an incomplete set of sheets because …… never mind.  And so now I have a top sheet and two pillowcases and all I need is a bottom sheet.  Turns out that Walmart sells single sheets by themselves, and I’ll pick one up.  But the point is I will not be going in to that barrage of boxes, that cataract of cardboard, that mountainous morass of stuff just to get a single sheet.

Just like I won’t go in there to get a single wine glass when one breaks. Or one towel.  Or one saucepan (OK, likely won’t wear out or break, so why do I need those extras?).

And as far as Christmas decorations go, we will need more outdoor lights.  But for the rest, we will keep just a few of the most precious, and give the rest away.  We won’t need five big plastic tubs of Xmas cheer, one will do, and we can probably find a corner of the laneway (maybe under the stairs) to store it.

Everything “extra” will go, given away, donated, tossed.

donations

These monsters have to be fed!

If we hadn’t started living this way, we would never have appreciated how nice it is to live with less stuff.  Now we love it, and will continue to do so.

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